tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post1479151764097153716..comments2023-10-22T11:45:23.103-04:00Comments on dead baby jokes: over and overUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-45178386148329074332008-12-30T09:51:00.000-05:002008-12-30T09:51:00.000-05:0039 weeks! hurrah for a great and smooth appointmen...39 weeks! hurrah for a great and smooth appointment.<BR/><BR/>As for the SIL. sigh...ain't the Universe grand with timing? <BR/><BR/>Having epic faith for you that everything continues to go well. Your life is not contingent on her life. It just can't be.<BR/><BR/>xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-13922767101074347042008-12-30T09:02:00.000-05:002008-12-30T09:02:00.000-05:00Oh Niobe, praying for your worrying heart. It is n...Oh Niobe, praying for your worrying heart. It is not the same story.<BR/><BR/>xxxCarly Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14586501928364642712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-38701029820229712162008-12-30T08:09:00.000-05:002008-12-30T08:09:00.000-05:00Sweetie, same thing happened to me with miscarriag...Sweetie, same thing happened to me with miscarriage number two, then she got pregnant same time as me with Dan, all turned out fine for the both of us this time round thank g-d, it can happen, have faith, (at least just a little for the time being) cant promise anything but it can happen, you saw it for yourself :)<BR/><BR/>xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-34023454890775910462008-12-30T08:02:00.000-05:002008-12-30T08:02:00.000-05:00No, you know, whooever is playing this (human) mup...No, you know, whooever is playing this (human) muppets show restarted once again, to fix it where it went so pointlessly wrong!<BR/>39 weeks... I want to never feel like that again!dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06410649274792171372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-32649950706831096852008-12-30T04:40:00.000-05:002008-12-30T04:40:00.000-05:00Rationality is sometimes overrated you know. I'm h...Rationality is sometimes overrated you know. I'm happy to read that the 39 week appointment went well.Rosepetalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11198906406934870970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-29364445261198880312008-12-30T01:01:00.000-05:002008-12-30T01:01:00.000-05:00Ohhh, I'm on pins and needles for you.Ohhh, I'm on pins and needles for you.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05173041901809163082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-88497080382490659532008-12-30T00:20:00.000-05:002008-12-30T00:20:00.000-05:00Holding out hope that the same old story doesn't p...Holding out hope that the same old story doesn't play out, Niobe. I mean, it can't. Because this story is a new story. It just has to be.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02933776400434137451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-55762627656947156682008-12-29T21:04:00.000-05:002008-12-29T21:04:00.000-05:00Your almost there. That is so wonderful. Cant wa...Your almost there. That is so wonderful. Cant wait to see pics of your rainbow baby! Come on little one time to meet your mommy!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16200467069135605282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-52645023219341079522008-12-29T20:58:00.000-05:002008-12-29T20:58:00.000-05:00I know this is a really hard time for you but I ju...I know this is a really hard time for you but I just have that good feeling! Only good things (baby, smiles, laughter) are coming your way. <BR/><BR/>Hang in there!Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00912286121374215944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-32285678520277665342008-12-29T20:56:00.001-05:002008-12-29T20:56:00.001-05:00you will be celebrating soonyou will be celebrating soonflutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-52447223813394400262008-12-29T20:56:00.000-05:002008-12-29T20:56:00.000-05:00you will be celebrating soonyou will be celebrating soonflutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-38967837420102819552008-12-29T20:38:00.000-05:002008-12-29T20:38:00.000-05:00I understand that grief and that worry, but this t...I understand that grief and that worry, but this time is going to be different -- I just know it. Watching and waiting for your good, good news.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10540060049975721555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-63542822442985311832008-12-29T20:31:00.000-05:002008-12-29T20:31:00.000-05:00You cannot even let your mind go there. I know it...You cannot even let your mind go there. I know it is impossible to be completely positive and worry free, given your history. But, I just know that in a week or so you will be bringing home a perfect baby boy! Does your SIL live close by? I agree with the others that this could be an opportunity to reconnect, if you want to...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-25985230063041989692008-12-29T20:28:00.000-05:002008-12-29T20:28:00.000-05:00Holy shit girl, 39 weeks already??!?! Please tell...Holy shit girl, 39 weeks already??!?! Please tell me you are all ready now for that wee boylet to come home...<BR/><BR/>As for your SIL - once bitten, twice shy. I can see why you'd be apprehensive. Expectant mothers are not always rational creatures; every emotion is heightened and every fear magnified. In your case, even more so. But this time will be different. You'll be so busy chasing after that sweet baby by the time she has hers, you won't even have time to spare her a passing thought.<BR/><BR/>Fingers and toes crossed over here!Hannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15855682469727450176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-53102227448989544512008-12-29T19:19:00.000-05:002008-12-29T19:19:00.000-05:00I think this time, your story will be different. ...I think this time, your story will be different. I am glad all is going well with the pregnancy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-69979390405357449852008-12-29T19:18:00.000-05:002008-12-29T19:18:00.000-05:00No No No! This time is different. History will not...No No No! This time is different. History will not repeat itself. Not this time. <BR/><BR/>Glad everything looks so good at 39 weeks. One week to go!Monica Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-76955863889386363482008-12-29T18:34:00.000-05:002008-12-29T18:34:00.000-05:00No no no. Not this time. Thinking of you as it a...No no no. Not this time. <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you as it all gets so close. I can't wait to see beautiful photos of gorgeous fingers and toes, and hear reports of mommyhood.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08339920449924488366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-64097279532922287542008-12-29T18:25:00.000-05:002008-12-29T18:25:00.000-05:00Many good thoughts, Niobe. Your feelings are your ...Many good thoughts, Niobe. Your feelings are your feelings, and they don't sound all that irrational to me.<BR/><BR/>xo xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-62471657420145883042008-12-29T18:16:00.000-05:002008-12-29T18:16:00.000-05:00So glad everyting is looking good and it is gettin...So glad everyting is looking good and it is getting so close.<BR/>I don't think it is irrational at all but I don't belive it will be true.Betty Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02106396238018550134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-82202190715329263632008-12-29T17:58:00.000-05:002008-12-29T17:58:00.000-05:00Not gonna happen. You're gonna be really tired all...Not gonna happen. You're gonna be really tired all the time really soon and it's gonna be great.Antropólogahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01720065905801369495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-24356908774625833002008-12-29T17:49:00.001-05:002008-12-29T17:49:00.001-05:00You will be fine, even though yes, this will be su...You will be fine, even though yes, this will be such a strange conundrum.<BR/><BR/>Do you think that if things goes all well, as we all hope, that you will ever talk to your SIL again?Aureliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-11573959585735281332008-12-29T17:49:00.000-05:002008-12-29T17:49:00.000-05:00Look on the bright side: maybe she will lose hers,...Look on the bright side: maybe she will lose hers, then you'll be even. <BR/><BR/>Oooh, evil troll I am! But I'm right, aren't I? You are totally wishing for it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-57305874387077485942008-12-29T17:38:00.000-05:002008-12-29T17:38:00.000-05:00I simply will not accept anything other than you i...I simply will not accept anything other than you in the role of the happily-sleep-deprived-mother-of-a-living-newborn. Do you understand me?Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01160908955133304449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-46125973038241270562008-12-29T17:15:00.000-05:002008-12-29T17:15:00.000-05:00I've been lurking on your blog, Niobe, since my so...I've been lurking on your blog, Niobe, since my son died a year and half ago. I'm 35+ weeks and everyone says 'almost there!' Which I am, which you are. But so much gets erased with that comment, with hope standing in for everything that can't be said about loss, chance, and permanence.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you and your babes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-225058560254819105.post-20199094727026800252008-12-29T16:51:00.000-05:002008-12-29T16:51:00.000-05:00There are people in our lives about whom we can no...There are people in our lives about whom we can not be rational. <BR/><BR/>I understand the fear, and hope that all goes well for you and yours.nonlineargirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05414675024101618604noreply@blogger.com