Sunday, April 29, 2007

better than i thought

My mother made the three-hour drive in record time, bringing heirloom pansies and frosted brownies. Both were slightly too sweet for my taste, but I told her thank you and meant it. She planted gladiolus bulbs, while warning me that they were unlikely to take root and picked up takeout from the Thai restaurant on the next block.

In the morning, my brother and his wife stopped by to show off Mattea’s first haircut. Stomping through the kitchen in her tiny pink-striped sneakers, Mattea recited the alphabet up to "g" and tried to tip over the button jar. When we sat her at the table, she demanded fish. Everyone kept saying that my heart seemed lighter. And perhaps it was.

11 comments:

S said...

Oh, I'm glad. That does sound like a good day.

Doughnut said...

And I believe your heart was lighter too. We tend to want to live through the children in our lives. They make us see the world in a much simplier and I think happier way.

Nicole said...

Sounds that way. Yay mom for bringing gifts even if they were a bit too sweet. Glad you rose to the occasion, we all know how hard that it is.

Suz said...

Oh...I'm so glad. Although the first time I read this entry, I thought that your mom brought heirloom panties.

Julia said...

Your weekend sounds nice. Certainly a lot nicer than the last one. I am glad you were able to find some comfort with your family.

Susan said...

I've been following your blog for some time. I never commented because I have not experienced your pain or loss. Your heart does seem lighter and for that I am joyful for you.

niobe said...

I am trying (and, happily, mostly failing) to imagine heirloom panties. Thanks, Suz for the visual.

Sara said...

This really does sound like a good weekend. I'm glad. It's nice sometimes to have family so close.

LIW (Lady In Waiting) said...

It's nice to hear that a little sunshine crept into your life!

I hope those flowers bloom like never before.

Aurelia said...

I'm glad for your heart being lighter.

(And the visual about the heirloom panties, LOL)

S. said...

Hmm, I'm thinking I could knit some heirloom panties. But you'd have to put them over something else.